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"To
be or not to be, that is the question. Whether it be nobler in the heart
of suffer
the
slings and arrows of outrageous fortune or to take up arms against a sea
of troubles" William Shakespeare.
WARY
STORY: Beau is a Wary who learned in his first home that
his pessimistic outlook on life was one hundred percent correct. His
owner always did just exactly the wrong things around Beau. Whenever
Beau practiced being Upbeat and happy, his owner teased and poked Beau,
making Beau terrified of any feelings of happiness.
Beau
had turned into a dog who snarled whenever he felt the least little
bit happy. I had to give Beau three times the normal length of the peace
& quiet routine to calm him enough into accepting extremely short doses
of positive interaction. Any time happiness was too much for him to
handle, he'd freeze and then snarl. I learned to pay attention when
he'd freeze and immediately do withdrawal of attention.
Rescue
cannot easily help a Wary become more Upbeat. Since a Wary is predominantly
a Feeling Type, a Wary needs a relationship first and then he can concentrate
on learning tasks and goals. Once Beau understood the basics of withdrawal
of attention and how to use this to cope with Upbeat feelings, my main
goal was to find him the right adopter and then teach his adopter how
to work with Beau.

Mike
Spangler's Beau. Photo by Ruth Ottiger.
THRILL:
Being physically and emotionally close to his/her person.
ANXIETY:
Separation anxiety. This type of dog gets grouchy or panicky when
his/her main person is unavailable.

WARY
Approaches
new situations carefully, expecting to meet danger or deception.

WARY/BOLD
A dog who cautiously
hesitates (feeling) and then goes towards a new situation (action). A
good cattle dog.

WARY/SHY
A dog who cautiously
hesitates (feeling) and then goes away from a new situation (action).
A good obedience competitor.

SHADOW
They don't
trust intense feelings of happiness. This distrust makes them awkward
and panicky if they do Upbeat without lots of small practice sessions.
Their awkwardness manifests itself in frenzied barking, rushing and leaping
at people, and having difficulty stopping these actions on their own.
SHADOW
STORY:
Roland's family wanted him to feel happy and secure. So they tried giving
him activities and training in a bouncy, flooding, all-positive manner.
Roland tried his best to be a happy, jolly dog, but he was so bad at
it that he had panic attacks and spells of hysterical behavior. Things
got so bad that Roland's family drove the two hours it takes to get
from their home to mine to take lessons. Roland was relieved to be able
to prove to his family that "grizzly bears" really do exist
and that his new trainer (Val) was proof of this fact!
The one thing that helped calm Roland more than anything else was when
Hobo came to live with him. Hobo is a Bold/Wary Border Collie. Roland
is more relaxed and self-assured because he trusts Hobo to not only
be aware of all "grizzly bears" but to also be capable of
scaring them all away.

Rob
Kleidman and Roland. Photo by Ruth Ottiger.
TRAINING
RECOMMENDATIONS: Playtraining Your Dog by Patricia
Gail Burnham, in small doses to teach the Wary how to practice and be
comfortable in a more Upbeat lifestyle. Warys who are slowly introduced
to Upbeat ways, with loads of acknowledgments that you realize life
can hold many hidden dangers and deceptions, love living in an Upbeat
style. See also Herding Behaviors.

Shameless
manipulation is a positive and very useful coping skill for Wary dogs
to learn. Here Smokey demonstrates
his manipulative skills. Photo by Pat Reynolds
TRAINING
EQUIPMENT: A small or fine pinch
collar for use during Upbeat lessons, for the dog's own protection.
A twenty foot lead to teach distance work as this type of dog has difficulty
working away from his/her person.
CLICKER:
A clicker is a particularly appropriate choice for use in teaching Warys
that "grizzly bears" can be approachable. As with the Shys,
Warys need to take many tiny steps and have many very short practice
sessions to learn to cope with their shadow feelings. Using a clicker
can help accomplish more tiny steps in a shorter period of time because
the Wary knows precisely what he is being rewarded for. Warys like that.
It is also good for their confidence levels if they feel they have some
control over being "right."
ACKNOWLEDGMENT:
Acknowledge that the world is full of "grizzly bears" and
then slowly teach the dog how to stop and smell the roses in between
searches for new grizzly bear sightings.
PROBLEM
PREVENTIONS: Tons of practice at leaving and returning to
the dog in sporadic intervals. Tiny little lessons in happiness. Coping
mechanisms for scary situations. Lots of tiny socialization exercises
with other people and animals. Teach this dog how to properly guard
his/her territory and possessions because this Type of dog will be too
protective of everything s/he needs and loves.
AGGRESSION:
Possession aggression and territorial aggression. They worry too much
about losing things.
HUG:
Hug therapy without picking them up. Picking them up entails too much
loss of control for them to comfortably deal with. Do hug therapy on
the floor and go very slow about moving them into the different positions.
Only transfer them to other people while under your direct supervision
and make it clear to the dog that you expect him/her to behave during
this experience. Reward the transfer by transferring back to you.
DRUG:
Very short-term use of Fort Dodge brand Acepromazine in cases of intense
separation anxiety. Amitriptyline (anti-anxiety medication) as a long-term
use drug for extreme Warys.
CAREER
CHOICES: First
they have to find a soulmate, then they can do anything, as long as
they know their soulmate will never abandon them. Loves
to observe life before making a decision as to whether to join in on
an activity. A poetic kind of dog. The Wary/Bold could be a good cattle-herding
dog, all Warys could be a companion for Wary people, competition dog
(if the effort has been taken to teach the dog to work at a distance
from his/her person).
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