INTROVERT
STORY:
Visitors would try to guess as to which of our dogs was our pack leader.
Most chose Nicky. Nicky was the most noticeable dog; he's large, mostly
white, and warmly greets people. When Laddie was here, people assumed
he was the pack leader because he was spunky and outgoing. No one ever
noticed Moss unless they were visiting us for at least three days. That's
how long it would take for people to understand that Moss was very quietly
and very efficiently orchestrating the entire household, that Nicky
and Laddie could be so relaxed around new people because they knew he
was right there ready to protect them.

Moss.
Moss was an introverted pack leader. He only took center-stage when
necessary. He needed solitary time and time just with me to re-energize
himself for his daily routine of caring for me, my husband, his family
of dogs---which included Laddie, Bessie, Nicky, Wystan, Gracie, Pat,
and Gemma---the two cats, Notable and Nugget, a variety of ducks who
followed him around the yard like a batch of chicks, helping to rehabilitate
rescued dogs, train people who were having problems with their own dogs,
screening potential adopters, organizing rescue volunteers, being the
conscience of BCRO's rescue practices and standards, and being the supervisor
of manners for the dogs at BCRO's Get-togethers. He did all this in
such an unobtrusive way hardly anyone noticed him, unless he looked
at them. Many people have said that when Moss looked at them, they felt
like they were being inspected by a wolf. I know what they meant; I
swear that dog could look right into people's souls and see all our
hidden fears and secrets.

Lisa's
Nell, another introverted pack leader. Photo by Betsy Beebe.
THRILL:
Quiet time.
ANXIETY:
Chaos. An introverted dog in a boisterous household will eventually
break down if the dog is not given a time for some peace and quiet.
SHADOW:
Extrovert. The first few times an introverted dog tries to act in an
extroverted manner, the dog will spectacularly, embarrassingly fail.
Small practice sessions where the dog's person has set the dog up to
succeed can prevent these embarrassing failures. For, with practice,
an introverted dog can learn to be a confident extrovert when s/he needs
to be.
SHADOW
ANECDOTE: Shiloh had a warm, loving, outgoing family. The problems
started because his family couldn't understand Shiloh's need to be by
himself frequently. Every time Shiloh left the room, his family members
would go get him or call him back to be with them. He eventually refused
to come when he was called and various family members started holding
onto his collar and forcing him to always stay with them. Shiloh bit
one of them. Everyone got their feelings hurt and a few became afraid
of Shiloh. He ended up in rescue. The family adopted an extroverted
Upbeat dog and they all lived happily after. Shiloh chose a soft-spoken
confirmed bachelor who lived in an isolated rural area and the two of
them lived happily ever after.
TRAINING
RECOMMENDATIONS: Start lessons in the home, just you and the dog.
Graduate to lessons in the yard and eventually add other people the
dog works with or as distractions. Graduate to lessons in the neighborhood
and praise for good manners around people and other animals. Graduate
to classes in group settings and give the dog quiet time afterwards
so s/he can re-energize. Use John Fisher's withdrawal of attention technique
as a correction because an introverted dog will understand and cope
with a correction that gives him some breathing/thinking space.

Blast,
extending an introverted invitation to play. Photo by Pat Reynolds.
TRAINING
EQUIPMENT: A twenty foot line so this dog can learn to be with you
and also put some space between you when s/he needs it.
ACKNOWLEDGMENT:
By giving the introverted dog places and times to be alone or just with
you doing a quiet activity together, like driving to the store, you
acknowledge this dog's needs.
PROBLEM
PREVENTIONS: Patience, a soft-spoken voice, quiet body language,
and backing off at times to give them the space to make their own decisions
will tremendously help the introverted dog gain confidence.
AGGRESSION:
Sensory overload. The tension can build and build and build in an introverted
dog until s/he reaches a breaking point.
HUG:
Hug therapy is extremely beneficial for an introverted dog. It is a
quiet way to reinforce the bond between the dog and the person. Hug
therapy will, at first, scare an introverted dog. They will resist the
closeness. Eventually, hug therapy can help them become more confident
and comfortable in social situations.
DRUG:
For an extremely introverted dog, use Fort Dodge brand Acepromazine
before hug therapy sessions. The initial experiences of closeness, especially
with people outside the dog's circle of trust, is extremely traumatic.